Ladies, today I went to the garage and I opened my husbands trunk (car) and what I found surprised me and hurt me. Neatly, placed in his golf shoes were four unopened condoms. We don%26#039;t use condoms. What would you think if you found what I found? Stupid question???? Is he cheating? I asked him about the condoms and before he could answer I told him I wanted a divorce. When he heard me ask for a divorce he said he didn%26#039;t need to answer any questions since I was wanting a divorce. Am I crazy? Am I crazy to believe that he is cheating? The condoms were so neatly stashed in his shoes. I am feeling a little guilty for not listening to his answer and demanding divorce.
Ladies what would you think if you found condoms in your husbands trunk?
No you are not. And if he can%26#039;t understand why you are upset and give you an explanation, he probably doesn%26#039;t give a damn about you. He is coming off with a lot of attitude for a someone who should be apologizing and feeling guilty. God, men are something else.
Reply:at least wait for his lame @ss excuse!!!!
Reply:I think you should have heard him out before asking for a divorce but hind sight is always 20/20. I can%26#039;t think of a reasonable explanation for condoms in his golf shoes though. I would be curious as to how he would explain them. I don%26#039;t think you are crazy or stupid. Some people believe their spouses are cheating with a lot less evidence than this so don%26#039;t beet yourself up too much.
I think you should try and get him to talk to you regardless so that you can know one way or the other and if there is any chance of staying together (if you want to stay together that is).
Good Luck.
Reply:girl if he won%26#039;t give you an explaination then hes cheating, just get out before it gets nasty- and plus if he was upset then hes definantly cheating
Reply:There is no possible answer that could explain that away!
And since he didn%26#039;t fight you, try to explain, then he is ready for the divorce too.
If he thought you were worth it, he would have dropped to his knees and begged to explain. He didn%26#039;t.
Maybe he wanted to get caught, so you could be the one to end the relationship.
Reply:If you want a divorce so quickly and hastily after that, I think it says a lot about YOUR committment to the relationship. Have you been unhappy and looking for a reason to get out of your marriage?
I%26#039;m sorry, I may be way off base with that, but you had a very a quick decision that is questionable. Maybe you were just extremely angry and emotional, but either way, I don%26#039;t think your reaction was a good one.
I agree it doesn%26#039;t look good, I can%26#039;t think of a viable reason why a married man would have condoms in his shoes. But you never know, talk to him about it, don%26#039;t shout and accuse, ask for the logical explanation. Hopefully, there is one. It seems you both reacted in an angry and hasty manner, I have a feeling your marital troubles preceded this incident. Both you and your husband seem very angry and unable to communicate properly with each other.
How long have you guys been married?
Have you guys ever used condoms?
Are they possibly left over from another time or another woman?
EDIT: Hi, I just read your previous questions and I see that I was correct, you and your husband have severe marital issues that preceded this event. You say he is verbally abusive and tells you no one would ever want you. A man like this will almost surely cheat on you, so I am sorry to say it looks like you are right. I have a feeling you want out of this marriage and honestly, I don%26#039;t think it would be a bad idea. I almost never encourage divorce, but if he is unwilling to seek help or counseling for his behavior, it would be best if you separate from him. Especially if he has ever physically hurt you. You are not worthless and you do not deserve to put up with this kind of abuse. Please talk to him about getting both individual and couples counseling, you two are in a very bad situation and you are being lied to and taken advantage of. You deserve better than this, I pray he will come to his senses, but if not, please don%26#039;t waste your life on this loser.
Reply:well if u told him u want a divorce and he didnt even act like no no and he said if we gettin a divorce i dont need 2 explain myself 2 u then he dont llove u, im sorry 2 say but it seems that way and then if he wasnt cheating he could of juss told u he wasnt buh cuz he said he dont need 2 explain meelf 2 u hes got no answer ready, he probly didnt expect u 2 find dem. see how many condoms u get in a pack, normaly u get 3 or 6 and if theres 4 theres a possibility that he could of used 2 of dem
Reply:You%26#039;re not overreacting. What a creep. I%26#039;m sorry. Since he didn%26#039;t even argue with you, i%26#039;d say he%26#039;s guilty.
Reply:listen to him maybe he wanted to cheat but he did not have the heart to do it so he just stucked the condoms in his shoe until he could dispose of them...ask him and let him know that although you accused him you would like to know the truth.
Reply:So you should. You should at least have heard him out before jumping to something as big as divorce. No matter what happens with the marriage, you will wonder about it the rest of your life. Divorce won%26#039;t give you closure.
When you calm down, try talking to your husband again and find out what really happened. Its likely you are right, but wouldn%26#039;t you kick yourself if you got divorced and you were wrong?
Reply:What would I think? I think that he needs to get a better job. Not only to afford a dang hotel room, but because he%26#039;s going to need it for alimony and child support.
He%26#039;s cheating honey, don%26#039;t let him tell you otherwise. If you buy those excuses, you%26#039;ll be the one kicking yourself for being so foolish. You deserve better and even you know it. This isn%26#039;t what you signed up for.
Reply:His lack of response would indicate that he doesn%26#039;t care one way or another if you stay or leave. The condoms mean he%26#039;s cheating. There is no other explanation, he probably couldn%26#039;t think of one either. Sorry
Reply:well considering your married and dont use condoms you would have EVERY right to think he is cheating. why else would he need a box of condoms!! you better handle this soon before it goes on any further. there is NO explaination for this... just excuses and lies.
Reply:You know in your heart what the problem is. Trust your gut, and think about this completely before making a life changing decision.
I hope everything works out for you.
Reply:yes he is cheating. am a male and if i was married i certainly wouldn%26#039;t buy condoms. if i did i would not hide them in my shoes. your not crazy ether.
Reply:One thing and only-CHEATER!! Why eles would they be in the trunk other than he is cheating on you..Im sorry luv..that blows!!
Reply:I would investigate and find out somehow if he was on the golf course the last time he told you he was going there. I would also check my cell phone for strange numbers and the time calls were made. Then I would look at all my credit card statements under resturants and amount of bill. This could give you a clue if the bill was rather pricey for only one person. Check ATM withdrawals time and dates. Think back to any overtime and check his check stubs if he isn%26#039;t salary....check every possible paper trail you can think of because you may find evidence there. The fact that you found condoms would give anyone reason to believe that your husband is up to no good. If it were me there would be no peace in my house untill I got the truth and he better not lie to me because there are std%26#039;s out there that not even a condom can protect you from!! I would say HELL NO and get mad as hell and be a crazy woman. He is buying himself time to think up a good story for you finding the condoms in his golf shoes. To avoid you after making the comment about divorce would be reason enough for him to to have told you right then and there what the hell was going on! I guess when he does speak out to you about it he will say someone played a dirty joke on him at the golf course and put them there.....don%26#039;t buy the story because if someone done that your husband would be mad enough to jump anyones behind that could cause him to have maritial problems over it! As long as he remains silent he has time to get with one of the guys and have a good story to back him up...so make him talk now and tear the house down like a bull in a china shop when you do!! Take care and be strong I know this is making you sick.
Reply:I would think he was cheating and trying to hide it.
Reply:I am a guy. Throw him in the trunk with his condoms.
Reply:Yes, you should have let him explain and the decide if you bought the story or not. I would say if he has condoms he must be thinking about cheating if he has not all ready!
Reply:If I had found condoms in my husband%26#039;s golf shoes....I would be VERY SUSPICIOUS!...You and your husband had no reason to be using condoms. Him refusing to explain the condoms because you already said you wanted a divorce tells me is very guilty of something. Why do you feel guilty for not listening to his explanation? Let me guess...he was holding them for a friend right? or....lets see...he was going to use them on himself while he masturbates...YEAH RIGHT!
Reply:if he didn%26#039;t even try to explain, he is guilty....
Reply:Why are you girls so quick to jump to the conclusion that the husband is cheating here?
Just because he has condoms in his shoes!
Haven%26#039;t you heard that condoms are the best things out for blisters caused by tight shoes? Playing golf requires a lot of walking - thus blisters often appear.
Nearly all golfers carry condoms %26amp; pull them over the part of the toe or foot where blisters appear. Good remedy, eh?
Trust me - would I lie to you?
Reply:Well you are a smart woman to tell him that you want a divoice because if you two dont use condoms then why does he have them?? His answers most likly would have a been a lie anyone and you arent crazy you are being smart about it because there is no reason why they should have been hiding in his shoes if he wasnt doing something wrong...good luck
Reply:First of all, divorce is not the answer but marriage counseling is. If he is cheating, you will come to know the problems surrounding the reasons and get help to recover from this setback in your relationship. But if you think divorce is going to solve your marriage problems, your wrong, it adds only to more pain that is like a snowball rolling down a hill. Stop it now and seek godly advice from your Pastor or from a Church counseling center..
Reply:I%26#039;d assume he was cheating, why else would he have the condoms? You are not crazy! My best advice is to go with your gut. What%26#039;s it say?
Reply:Sorry to say this but hes cheating on you!! If u guys dont use condoms together then hes obviesl using them on someone else!!
Reply:hmmmmmmmmmmm wheres the rest of them ...there are more than 4 to a box?
Reply:If he had condoms and you guys don%26#039;t use them together, unless he%26#039;s screwing a horse or something...he%26#039;s cheating on you.
Reply:I don%26#039;t blame you in the least for being suspicious . Honestly, what other conclusions are you expected to come to when you discover something like that??? Even if you didn%26#039;t wait for him to answer, he should have enough decency to give you an explanation. I mean, you%26#039;re his wife for god%26#039;s sake, that%26#039;s more than enough reason for one! In the heat of the moment you said you wanted a divorce, but that doesnt give him the right not to tell you exactly why there are condoms hidden in his car.
By saying he doesnt need to answer to your accusations, he%26#039;s trying to elude the confrontation, which is pretty cowardly and CHEAP of him.
Reply:leave him
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Tuesday, April 14, 2009
What are some props Kramer uses in Seinfeld? I'm being Kramer for Halloween and I need help!!!?
Any ideas on what other props I can use or other ideas? So far I am wearing a cheap tacky jacket, with short khakis and golf shoes, with a wig and cigar and golf club. What else could I do?
What are some props Kramer uses in Seinfeld? I%26#039;m being Kramer for Halloween and I need help!!!?
I had a shirt with Kramer dressed in a gray blazer over a light blue button up shirt surrounded by a gold frame. Try the gold frame.
Reply:i think if you could pull off the crazy hair thats all you need
Reply:A license plate on your back that says A*SMAN.
Do you remember the the episode in which Kramer was mistakenly sent the personalized license plates of a proctologist that read : AS*MAN?
Have fun!
Reply:10 cent Michigan deposit bottles
Fruit
keys to Jerry%26#039;s apartment
Reply:If you can get the hair right you got it all.
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What are some props Kramer uses in Seinfeld? I%26#039;m being Kramer for Halloween and I need help!!!?
I had a shirt with Kramer dressed in a gray blazer over a light blue button up shirt surrounded by a gold frame. Try the gold frame.
Reply:i think if you could pull off the crazy hair thats all you need
Reply:A license plate on your back that says A*SMAN.
Do you remember the the episode in which Kramer was mistakenly sent the personalized license plates of a proctologist that read : AS*MAN?
Have fun!
Reply:10 cent Michigan deposit bottles
Fruit
keys to Jerry%26#039;s apartment
Reply:If you can get the hair right you got it all.
skin problems
Ok do I tell him how hurt I am, or do I let it go?
25th anniversary, great card from my husband in the morning. Then....nothing. It fell on a tuesday, so we both had to work that day, and we have an ongoing function on tuesdays with other friends. The other friend has just lost his wife, and it was his b-day so neither one of us thought we could abandon him that day. We both agreed to celebrate the following weekend. Well we never did. I bought my husband new golf shoes, a driver and 6 golf lessons which I was thrilled to give him. His response was he felt bad he didn%26#039;t get me anything, he thought about having flowers sent to work, but knew that I was there alone that day and it wouldn%26#039;t have meant anything if no one was there to see me get them? Now I am totally confused. He knows that I really thought this was a huge milestone, I thought he did to. I mean we do things together all the time, and he tells me all the time were soulmates, but shouldn%26#039;t something special have happened. (continued)
Ok do I tell him how hurt I am, or do I let it go?
Tell it serectively and cleverly . You have reason to tell him that you hurt .
Reply:just tell him...
Reply:Us men aren%26#039;t as sentimental as you women are. The fact that he remembered a card on that day Is Just Amazing.....
There have been many times I forgot my anniversary. But, Got her a card the following weekend.
Its just the way we are......
Reply:I really can relate to this. I have a dutch husband and sometimes I think they have no emotions. It has taken me several years to even get him to give me a card. You see, men can just be idiots, even though they love us to death. Sounds like he loves you alot...but just is not good at this sort of thing. I DO tell my husband when he hurts me in this way and little by little he has gotten better...a work in progress every year.
I think you should tell him it hurt you and that you are dissappointed without being cruel about it (don%26#039;t dare hurt his ego), then suggest a dinner out to celebrate on a certain date. Maybe he will get the hint and plan it himself.
Reply:Maybe just maybe your hubby has plans but is not telling because he wants it to be a surprise. Maybe part of his plan is to have you think he%26#039;s not gonna do anything and when u least expect it SURPRISE!!!=-)
I mean 25 yrs is a milestone and I%26#039;m sure after things are clear for him to spring it on u he will
But if after awhile nothing happens don%26#039;t let it stop U from going out by yourself and celebrate Ur 25th alone go out and make a night or day of it.
Go shopping by yourself a nice outfit, get your nails done, facial, go to the hair salon, go to lunch and enjoy the rest of the day don%26#039;t let anything or anyone spoil your day no matter what happens just let it roll off u until after you%26#039;ve had a day of fun.
If Ur hubby happens to see u getting dressed and ask where Ur going just say Ur meeting some of Ur gal pals or better yet don%26#039;t let him see U getting ready to go out, let him see u come in fropm having a day of fun by yourself when he ask u wher ya been thats when u say with a smile ( remember don%26#039;t let anyone get u upset) I was out celebrating, when he says celebrating what say my 25th anniversary an I had a wonderful time sweetie. He ask why did u do it without him then just say I have been asking u for the longest if we could do something but u never seem to have the time so I thought I%26#039;d just go do it myself 25th anniversary only happens once so I figure I better enjoy it. I hope this will make him say %26quot; Honey I%26#039;m sorry and I want to take u out so we can celebrate together%26quot; and the two of U go out and have the best time ever =-)
Reply:Be glad he remembered, Don%26#039;t be so focused on Material things as a record of how much he loves you.
Reply:25th anniversary and no hoopla? You MUST confront him on this one.
Reply:You already asked this today. Didn%26#039;t you like the answers?
Reply:yes tell him your feelings....Never to late to celebrate!
Reply:tell him how you feel. men cant read minds, especially when it comes to women.
Reply:You have to let him know that this bothered you. 25 years is a big deal. Its typical of a man to not know that how he %26quot;celebrated%26quot; your anniversary would be upsetting to you.
koffice
Ok do I tell him how hurt I am, or do I let it go?
Tell it serectively and cleverly . You have reason to tell him that you hurt .
Reply:just tell him...
Reply:Us men aren%26#039;t as sentimental as you women are. The fact that he remembered a card on that day Is Just Amazing.....
There have been many times I forgot my anniversary. But, Got her a card the following weekend.
Its just the way we are......
Reply:I really can relate to this. I have a dutch husband and sometimes I think they have no emotions. It has taken me several years to even get him to give me a card. You see, men can just be idiots, even though they love us to death. Sounds like he loves you alot...but just is not good at this sort of thing. I DO tell my husband when he hurts me in this way and little by little he has gotten better...a work in progress every year.
I think you should tell him it hurt you and that you are dissappointed without being cruel about it (don%26#039;t dare hurt his ego), then suggest a dinner out to celebrate on a certain date. Maybe he will get the hint and plan it himself.
Reply:Maybe just maybe your hubby has plans but is not telling because he wants it to be a surprise. Maybe part of his plan is to have you think he%26#039;s not gonna do anything and when u least expect it SURPRISE!!!=-)
I mean 25 yrs is a milestone and I%26#039;m sure after things are clear for him to spring it on u he will
But if after awhile nothing happens don%26#039;t let it stop U from going out by yourself and celebrate Ur 25th alone go out and make a night or day of it.
Go shopping by yourself a nice outfit, get your nails done, facial, go to the hair salon, go to lunch and enjoy the rest of the day don%26#039;t let anything or anyone spoil your day no matter what happens just let it roll off u until after you%26#039;ve had a day of fun.
If Ur hubby happens to see u getting dressed and ask where Ur going just say Ur meeting some of Ur gal pals or better yet don%26#039;t let him see U getting ready to go out, let him see u come in fropm having a day of fun by yourself when he ask u wher ya been thats when u say with a smile ( remember don%26#039;t let anyone get u upset) I was out celebrating, when he says celebrating what say my 25th anniversary an I had a wonderful time sweetie. He ask why did u do it without him then just say I have been asking u for the longest if we could do something but u never seem to have the time so I thought I%26#039;d just go do it myself 25th anniversary only happens once so I figure I better enjoy it. I hope this will make him say %26quot; Honey I%26#039;m sorry and I want to take u out so we can celebrate together%26quot; and the two of U go out and have the best time ever =-)
Reply:Be glad he remembered, Don%26#039;t be so focused on Material things as a record of how much he loves you.
Reply:25th anniversary and no hoopla? You MUST confront him on this one.
Reply:You already asked this today. Didn%26#039;t you like the answers?
Reply:yes tell him your feelings....Never to late to celebrate!
Reply:tell him how you feel. men cant read minds, especially when it comes to women.
Reply:You have to let him know that this bothered you. 25 years is a big deal. Its typical of a man to not know that how he %26quot;celebrated%26quot; your anniversary would be upsetting to you.
koffice
What are some props Kramer uses in Seinfeld? I'm being Kramer for Halloween and I need help!!!?
Any ideas on what other props I can use or other ideas? So far I am wearing a cheap tacky jacket, with short khakis and golf shoes, with a wig and cigar and golf club. What else could I do?
What are some props Kramer uses in Seinfeld? I%26#039;m being Kramer for Halloween and I need help!!!?
The hair and the mannerisms are his main distinguishing features. You might want to practice his mannerisms in front of a mirror.
Reply:Chino pants, that are too short (floods)
Cigar (Preferably lit)
Wild fluffy hair
A Pipe (he used one in a few shows) with a jacket with patches on the elbows
Reply:lose the shorts and wear floods.
Reply:Go straight to the kitchen look for stuff in the refrigerator and find a cereal box and carry it around.
Reply:Kenny Rogers chicken? A coffee table book?
Reply:I dress as Kramer each year and I am fortunate to have the hair already. I grow it longer/higher this time of year and it is kind of a hassle to look normal. You have chosen some good props, and people should know right away who you are without any more props. Be sure to have at the ready various catch phrases that he spoke.
All of u - feel free to IM me or email me to talk about Seinfeld or Kramer.
Reply:you can call everyone buddy. keep a peach in your pocket and bring it out and start eating it.
Reply:How many things are you planning on toting around? Your costume sounds good. Run around and slide into doorways alot. Bother everyone to give you their bottled for recycling. Nod and say %26quot;yah, yah%26quot; thoughtfully, as if you%26#039;ve had en epiphany.
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What are some props Kramer uses in Seinfeld? I%26#039;m being Kramer for Halloween and I need help!!!?
The hair and the mannerisms are his main distinguishing features. You might want to practice his mannerisms in front of a mirror.
Reply:Chino pants, that are too short (floods)
Cigar (Preferably lit)
Wild fluffy hair
A Pipe (he used one in a few shows) with a jacket with patches on the elbows
Reply:lose the shorts and wear floods.
Reply:Go straight to the kitchen look for stuff in the refrigerator and find a cereal box and carry it around.
Reply:Kenny Rogers chicken? A coffee table book?
Reply:I dress as Kramer each year and I am fortunate to have the hair already. I grow it longer/higher this time of year and it is kind of a hassle to look normal. You have chosen some good props, and people should know right away who you are without any more props. Be sure to have at the ready various catch phrases that he spoke.
All of u - feel free to IM me or email me to talk about Seinfeld or Kramer.
Reply:you can call everyone buddy. keep a peach in your pocket and bring it out and start eating it.
Reply:How many things are you planning on toting around? Your costume sounds good. Run around and slide into doorways alot. Bother everyone to give you their bottled for recycling. Nod and say %26quot;yah, yah%26quot; thoughtfully, as if you%26#039;ve had en epiphany.
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Should i be upset?(valentines "gift")?
Its valentines day the most romantic day of the year and although i know my husband isn%26#039;t romantic usually he has been known to come up trumps occassionally.
However this year i opened my card(which was very nice..) and inside was 10 lottery tickets.
im trying to grit my teeth and not say anything i might regret but lottery tickets!!!!
He loves golf so i gave him new set of golf shoes and speciality distance balls. i know u shouldnt give to receive but after 9 yrs marriage i get lottery tickets!!! can someone explain the reasoning behind that!!
Should i be upset?(valentines %26quot;gift%26quot;)?
You won%26#039;t complain if 6 numbers come up - WILL YOU
Reply:ah he obviously isn%26#039;t very good at this.
Keep your fingers crossed if you become a millionaire this weekend you won%26#039;t be complaining!
Reply:Monetary gifts for Valentines Day ARE pretty tacky - but at least you didn%26#039;t end up with a power drill. Before you plot his demise though, wait till the end of the day, maybe he has something else up his sleeve. I%26#039;m a guy and admittedly, we aren%26#039;t always the sharpest knives in the drawer when it comes to gifting women, but lottery tickets ? Even that%26#039;s a new low. (I hope you saved the receipt for the golf stuff !).
Reply:lol - if you win, you don%26#039;t necessarily have to share the dosh with him!!!
Reply:From my interpretation: You%26#039;re getting lucky tonight.
Reply:Well maybe if you%26#039;re this upset about it then next year you can get a divorce! Ha!
Reply:not original - but its different !
my fiance got that as her secret santa
P/S We havent even given each other cards today -
we choose when to be romantic and dont like being told when to
im making roast lamb tonight followed by %26quot;chick flick2 of her choice -
Reply:After nine years of marriage I reckon you%26#039;re lucky to even get a card, the tickets are just a bonus.
Reply:You know what some men can be like when it comes to buying presents - to us it seems thoughtless but they probably don%26#039;t know what to get. I%26#039;m lucky that my fiance is great at getting me thoughtful gifts but my dad is just like your husband!
Does he get you gifts at any other time other than special occasions? If he does and they%26#039;re thoughtful gifts, I wouldn%26#039;t worry too much. Valentine%26#039;s day isn%26#039;t the only day in the year to be romantic and show each other you care. And it%26#039;s how you spend the day together that%26#039;s important. My fiance didn%26#039;t get me a card, instead he sent an e-card, but he got me a thoughtful present so I let him off!
Reply:just kill him he lacks imagination if you one he would want half but you wouldnt want his golf balls would you
Reply:awwww i can understand why you so upset and angry after 9 yrs of marriage one wud expect a more thoughtful present, but (i know this line gets mentioned alot and although its not much of an excuse here) he is a man after all, and men really dont think do they! with him coming up trumps with presents before, i guess he knows what u like and has used jis brain on occasions like this before, but maybe he has had stuff on his mind, like money issues (hence the lotto tickets!) or maybe he totally forgot about it?? and realised last minute?
lets hope you win the millions hay!
Reply:well cross ur fingers on saturday, and get ready 2 book ur cruise (without him) and have fun
Reply:At least you got a card!! According to my partner, my card is still in the Card Shop! :0)
If you come up trumps tonight with 6 numbers on the lottery, go book a long holiday and take some friends, leave him behind.
Reply:Wow, men can be so clueless! Not a great gift for sure, but look on the positive side...he at least got you a nice card and made an attempt....some men don%26#039;t even bother doing that.
Reply:maybe he is trying to tell you that being with you is like winning the lottery! Ask him about it if you are unsure.
Reply:be grateful, after 16 years i got nish.lol
Reply:come on really what he is saying is that he want you to have everything but because he could not afford everything he gave you a chance to win it all!! i think its nice, you have to think like a man sometimes to understand there sense, believe me its helped me out!!! xx
Reply:well i guess the answer to your question depends on what he gave you on previous valentines days. if the presents were always more or less the same then i guess its just the way he is. if the presents used to be really nice then theres clearly something wrong... all u can do is cross your fingers and win! good luck!
Reply:if you won would you still complain..............
Reply:This morning i didnt get anything, i think valentines day is over priced, commerical and a chance for arguments to create. He got you a card and tickets, thats more than i got. Yes i do love to feel special and i expect tonight i will get a card but if men are not romantic dont be mad. I asked my partner to get me so roses and we agreed to have a nice bottle of plonk tonight and us time. What i think counts the most is things like that, not how much you spent or what fancy gifts you got. its knowing you apreciate one another and if he is good too you all year round, you have lovely times together all you aroundand he makes you feel special all year round, what does one day mean!!!
Dont stress, you may even win!!!
Reply:He is giving you the gift he always wanted.
Reply:See if you win. Then decide whether to be annoyed!! haha! I reckon it actually shows he has a good sense of humour. It may not be romantic but then... every day should be valentines day if you think about it and every day he should let you know he loves you. Have a laugh about it. You%26#039;d miss it if he was no longer around... By the way, if it makes you feel better, I know a guy who found a scarf on the floor and gave it to his girlfriend. Now THAT%26#039;S a new low!!!
Reply:Bless he obviously has no idea! Well if you win you will be happy and can buy what you really wanted. Lol blokes are clueless arent they?
Reply:Its the thought that counts right? At least the card was %26quot;very nice%26quot;. Maybe he has something planned for later, its only the beginning of the day...
Reply:Just kick his balls
Reply:I bliv it%26#039;s the thot that counts lovie...he wishes u can win the lottery which to me is the best thing eva!!!! Don 4gt me whn once u%26#039;re a millioner xxx
Reply:get over it! after 9 years many couples are over it anyway. least you got something
Reply:he forgot and thats all they had left at wallgreens
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However this year i opened my card(which was very nice..) and inside was 10 lottery tickets.
im trying to grit my teeth and not say anything i might regret but lottery tickets!!!!
He loves golf so i gave him new set of golf shoes and speciality distance balls. i know u shouldnt give to receive but after 9 yrs marriage i get lottery tickets!!! can someone explain the reasoning behind that!!
Should i be upset?(valentines %26quot;gift%26quot;)?
You won%26#039;t complain if 6 numbers come up - WILL YOU
Reply:ah he obviously isn%26#039;t very good at this.
Keep your fingers crossed if you become a millionaire this weekend you won%26#039;t be complaining!
Reply:Monetary gifts for Valentines Day ARE pretty tacky - but at least you didn%26#039;t end up with a power drill. Before you plot his demise though, wait till the end of the day, maybe he has something else up his sleeve. I%26#039;m a guy and admittedly, we aren%26#039;t always the sharpest knives in the drawer when it comes to gifting women, but lottery tickets ? Even that%26#039;s a new low. (I hope you saved the receipt for the golf stuff !).
Reply:lol - if you win, you don%26#039;t necessarily have to share the dosh with him!!!
Reply:From my interpretation: You%26#039;re getting lucky tonight.
Reply:Well maybe if you%26#039;re this upset about it then next year you can get a divorce! Ha!
Reply:not original - but its different !
my fiance got that as her secret santa
P/S We havent even given each other cards today -
we choose when to be romantic and dont like being told when to
im making roast lamb tonight followed by %26quot;chick flick2 of her choice -
Reply:After nine years of marriage I reckon you%26#039;re lucky to even get a card, the tickets are just a bonus.
Reply:You know what some men can be like when it comes to buying presents - to us it seems thoughtless but they probably don%26#039;t know what to get. I%26#039;m lucky that my fiance is great at getting me thoughtful gifts but my dad is just like your husband!
Does he get you gifts at any other time other than special occasions? If he does and they%26#039;re thoughtful gifts, I wouldn%26#039;t worry too much. Valentine%26#039;s day isn%26#039;t the only day in the year to be romantic and show each other you care. And it%26#039;s how you spend the day together that%26#039;s important. My fiance didn%26#039;t get me a card, instead he sent an e-card, but he got me a thoughtful present so I let him off!
Reply:just kill him he lacks imagination if you one he would want half but you wouldnt want his golf balls would you
Reply:awwww i can understand why you so upset and angry after 9 yrs of marriage one wud expect a more thoughtful present, but (i know this line gets mentioned alot and although its not much of an excuse here) he is a man after all, and men really dont think do they! with him coming up trumps with presents before, i guess he knows what u like and has used jis brain on occasions like this before, but maybe he has had stuff on his mind, like money issues (hence the lotto tickets!) or maybe he totally forgot about it?? and realised last minute?
lets hope you win the millions hay!
Reply:well cross ur fingers on saturday, and get ready 2 book ur cruise (without him) and have fun
Reply:At least you got a card!! According to my partner, my card is still in the Card Shop! :0)
If you come up trumps tonight with 6 numbers on the lottery, go book a long holiday and take some friends, leave him behind.
Reply:Wow, men can be so clueless! Not a great gift for sure, but look on the positive side...he at least got you a nice card and made an attempt....some men don%26#039;t even bother doing that.
Reply:maybe he is trying to tell you that being with you is like winning the lottery! Ask him about it if you are unsure.
Reply:be grateful, after 16 years i got nish.lol
Reply:come on really what he is saying is that he want you to have everything but because he could not afford everything he gave you a chance to win it all!! i think its nice, you have to think like a man sometimes to understand there sense, believe me its helped me out!!! xx
Reply:well i guess the answer to your question depends on what he gave you on previous valentines days. if the presents were always more or less the same then i guess its just the way he is. if the presents used to be really nice then theres clearly something wrong... all u can do is cross your fingers and win! good luck!
Reply:if you won would you still complain..............
Reply:This morning i didnt get anything, i think valentines day is over priced, commerical and a chance for arguments to create. He got you a card and tickets, thats more than i got. Yes i do love to feel special and i expect tonight i will get a card but if men are not romantic dont be mad. I asked my partner to get me so roses and we agreed to have a nice bottle of plonk tonight and us time. What i think counts the most is things like that, not how much you spent or what fancy gifts you got. its knowing you apreciate one another and if he is good too you all year round, you have lovely times together all you aroundand he makes you feel special all year round, what does one day mean!!!
Dont stress, you may even win!!!
Reply:He is giving you the gift he always wanted.
Reply:See if you win. Then decide whether to be annoyed!! haha! I reckon it actually shows he has a good sense of humour. It may not be romantic but then... every day should be valentines day if you think about it and every day he should let you know he loves you. Have a laugh about it. You%26#039;d miss it if he was no longer around... By the way, if it makes you feel better, I know a guy who found a scarf on the floor and gave it to his girlfriend. Now THAT%26#039;S a new low!!!
Reply:Bless he obviously has no idea! Well if you win you will be happy and can buy what you really wanted. Lol blokes are clueless arent they?
Reply:Its the thought that counts right? At least the card was %26quot;very nice%26quot;. Maybe he has something planned for later, its only the beginning of the day...
Reply:Just kick his balls
Reply:I bliv it%26#039;s the thot that counts lovie...he wishes u can win the lottery which to me is the best thing eva!!!! Don 4gt me whn once u%26#039;re a millioner xxx
Reply:get over it! after 9 years many couples are over it anyway. least you got something
Reply:he forgot and thats all they had left at wallgreens
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Plantar fasciitis-treatment by taking medicines- name a few pl?
Initially, I have the tingling pain and the pain becomes more severe when I play 18 holes golf. I wear golf shoes of reputed make. When Iam not playing golf I have the tingling feeling now and then. Iam 72 years of age.
Plantar fasciitis-treatment by taking medicines- name a few pl?
Any time you on your feet for a long period of time its going to cause more pain. Get yourself a comfortable insert and when you get home grab a cold can of soda lay it on the floor and roll your foot over it for about ten minutes. should loosen the tendon up.
Reply:Plantar Facitis ususally comes under a broard term of conditions affecting the lower limbs up tp the hip area of the body.
It may affect your blood vessals, muscular tissues and of cause bone and tendone stuctures.
Essentially it can be introduced as a Viral / bacterial type depending on the type of corse and also can be heredetary and comes often with old age.
It is essentially the welling of certain lower limb and body areas, causing many suferers a lot of pain.
For some it may be constant, for others intermotent.
Pain medications may assist, but of course this is only a short term remedy.
The best advice I can give as an ex-medical rep, is KEEP ON THE MOVE.
No mater what the age, movement in the lower body is essential to good health. Also You can purchas Astrix (100mg Asprin) over the counter. Most Asprin comes in 300 mg which is too much to take every day. But taking 100mg wich is a smaller amount reduces pain and swelling in the long run.
Of course there are many other medications, however I recommend, a lifestyle change, ehere you consult with your local GP and ask for a prolonged, extended consultation to create a case management of this condition, so that you can both work together to see what is going to work for you in the long run.
Remember, its nice not to have pain, or have pain relief, but its even better if you can get it under control.
Facitis is a latin term fir lower body and itis is latib for inflamation. So maybe you can even consult with your pharnacist as there are many non medicated remedies, such as herbal medicines, yoga, certain stretch excercises.
It goes without saying that certain foods will exaserbate the condition, like tomatoes or some very spicy foods etc.
You will be the only person who knows when it is at its worst.
It may be helpful to keep a journal of the following for one month:
Time of day when it is at its worst
Food taken prior to an episode
Stressors or triggers prior to episodes
environmental factors prior to episodes
Chart when it is at its worst, eg: Morning, Day or night.
For many sufferers it is usually afternoon leading into the night, as exertion and too much activity can also exacerbate it as well.
Once you have done this for a month and plotted the frequenqy and duration of the episodes, you may also be able to identify a common factor leading up to the episode.
Armed with this type of information you have already done most of your local doctors work and you can both be informed as to the best way to manage the condition.
PS: If all ese fails, PRAY to God through the name of Jesus for healing and pain relief. I did and it worked on many ocassions.
Sometimes an open mind is an invitation into a very exclisive mindset, which always from my experience results with positive impact both upon the sufferer you in this case and those around you.
As we are creatures who live not unto ourselves, we are impacted either negatively or positively by our actions and this applies to those around us as to how we impact upon them.
I hope all the very best for you and am saying a prayer for you right now. Soon you will see that the pain and condition are secondary to life itself..
PS PS: I forgot, the other approach you can safelt take is a mini detox to your whole system. This can be acheived by drinking 250 ml, 1 glass of Cranberry juice every day for two weeks, then email back to me and tell me how you feel.
I am a carer for a gentleman aged the same age a you, and you should see the rapid results it acheives in cleansing the liver and reducing unwanted toxins from the body, I gaurantee you you will feel much more energetic and have greater pain relief as this will also take a load of your liver. If not, call me and I%26#039;ii buy you a cup of coffee.
Seriously if you want to talk, feel fee to email me or call me on 0425362070 in Australia.
Best Regards
Cheers!!
From Suncan ( Slamdunk).
May you go on to live many many more productive and happy joyful years.
Reply:I wear an ankle/footbrace for it. At one point I also took Neurontin for it. That might help with the tingling.
Reply:One of the best treatments for plantar fasciitis is myofascial release. The plantar fascia is basically a thick band of connective tissue that cannot lengthen or shorten on its own (no contractile properties). Check for massage therapists in your area that are familiar with this treatment, or get a prescription for physical therapy so they can use other treatment modalities to calm the area down.
Traditional medications for this would be anti inflammatory drugs (advil, motrin, aleve, etc) but check with an MD before taking these.
Reply:Google some stretching exercises you can do in the morning. It can take as long as 6 months to heal this problem, but with stretching and the right shoes you%26#039;ll feel better in no time.
1. Take an anti-inflammatory like ibuprofin (Advil) or aspirin about an hour *before* you head out to do any activity or errand.
2. New Balance makes excellent shoes to treat specific issues. You%26#039;ll can find suitable model suggestions here: http://store.nbdelaware.com/merchant2/me...
It%26#039;s extremely important that you have shoes designed for walking because they%26#039;re made differently and offer better support than regular sneakers. Go to a New Balance store to get fitted and buy elsewhere if your style isn%26#039;t on sale.
3. When returning from activities, apply an ice pack on your feet and elevate them.
4. If you feel you have tried good shoes, stretching, etc... and are still experiencing pain or mobility, see a sports medicine doctor or podiatrist.
What is Plantar Fasciitis:
http://orthoinfo.aaos.org/fact/thr_repor...
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Plantar fasciitis-treatment by taking medicines- name a few pl?
Any time you on your feet for a long period of time its going to cause more pain. Get yourself a comfortable insert and when you get home grab a cold can of soda lay it on the floor and roll your foot over it for about ten minutes. should loosen the tendon up.
Reply:Plantar Facitis ususally comes under a broard term of conditions affecting the lower limbs up tp the hip area of the body.
It may affect your blood vessals, muscular tissues and of cause bone and tendone stuctures.
Essentially it can be introduced as a Viral / bacterial type depending on the type of corse and also can be heredetary and comes often with old age.
It is essentially the welling of certain lower limb and body areas, causing many suferers a lot of pain.
For some it may be constant, for others intermotent.
Pain medications may assist, but of course this is only a short term remedy.
The best advice I can give as an ex-medical rep, is KEEP ON THE MOVE.
No mater what the age, movement in the lower body is essential to good health. Also You can purchas Astrix (100mg Asprin) over the counter. Most Asprin comes in 300 mg which is too much to take every day. But taking 100mg wich is a smaller amount reduces pain and swelling in the long run.
Of course there are many other medications, however I recommend, a lifestyle change, ehere you consult with your local GP and ask for a prolonged, extended consultation to create a case management of this condition, so that you can both work together to see what is going to work for you in the long run.
Remember, its nice not to have pain, or have pain relief, but its even better if you can get it under control.
Facitis is a latin term fir lower body and itis is latib for inflamation. So maybe you can even consult with your pharnacist as there are many non medicated remedies, such as herbal medicines, yoga, certain stretch excercises.
It goes without saying that certain foods will exaserbate the condition, like tomatoes or some very spicy foods etc.
You will be the only person who knows when it is at its worst.
It may be helpful to keep a journal of the following for one month:
Time of day when it is at its worst
Food taken prior to an episode
Stressors or triggers prior to episodes
environmental factors prior to episodes
Chart when it is at its worst, eg: Morning, Day or night.
For many sufferers it is usually afternoon leading into the night, as exertion and too much activity can also exacerbate it as well.
Once you have done this for a month and plotted the frequenqy and duration of the episodes, you may also be able to identify a common factor leading up to the episode.
Armed with this type of information you have already done most of your local doctors work and you can both be informed as to the best way to manage the condition.
PS: If all ese fails, PRAY to God through the name of Jesus for healing and pain relief. I did and it worked on many ocassions.
Sometimes an open mind is an invitation into a very exclisive mindset, which always from my experience results with positive impact both upon the sufferer you in this case and those around you.
As we are creatures who live not unto ourselves, we are impacted either negatively or positively by our actions and this applies to those around us as to how we impact upon them.
I hope all the very best for you and am saying a prayer for you right now. Soon you will see that the pain and condition are secondary to life itself..
PS PS: I forgot, the other approach you can safelt take is a mini detox to your whole system. This can be acheived by drinking 250 ml, 1 glass of Cranberry juice every day for two weeks, then email back to me and tell me how you feel.
I am a carer for a gentleman aged the same age a you, and you should see the rapid results it acheives in cleansing the liver and reducing unwanted toxins from the body, I gaurantee you you will feel much more energetic and have greater pain relief as this will also take a load of your liver. If not, call me and I%26#039;ii buy you a cup of coffee.
Seriously if you want to talk, feel fee to email me or call me on 0425362070 in Australia.
Best Regards
Cheers!!
From Suncan ( Slamdunk).
May you go on to live many many more productive and happy joyful years.
Reply:I wear an ankle/footbrace for it. At one point I also took Neurontin for it. That might help with the tingling.
Reply:One of the best treatments for plantar fasciitis is myofascial release. The plantar fascia is basically a thick band of connective tissue that cannot lengthen or shorten on its own (no contractile properties). Check for massage therapists in your area that are familiar with this treatment, or get a prescription for physical therapy so they can use other treatment modalities to calm the area down.
Traditional medications for this would be anti inflammatory drugs (advil, motrin, aleve, etc) but check with an MD before taking these.
Reply:Google some stretching exercises you can do in the morning. It can take as long as 6 months to heal this problem, but with stretching and the right shoes you%26#039;ll feel better in no time.
1. Take an anti-inflammatory like ibuprofin (Advil) or aspirin about an hour *before* you head out to do any activity or errand.
2. New Balance makes excellent shoes to treat specific issues. You%26#039;ll can find suitable model suggestions here: http://store.nbdelaware.com/merchant2/me...
It%26#039;s extremely important that you have shoes designed for walking because they%26#039;re made differently and offer better support than regular sneakers. Go to a New Balance store to get fitted and buy elsewhere if your style isn%26#039;t on sale.
3. When returning from activities, apply an ice pack on your feet and elevate them.
4. If you feel you have tried good shoes, stretching, etc... and are still experiencing pain or mobility, see a sports medicine doctor or podiatrist.
What is Plantar Fasciitis:
http://orthoinfo.aaos.org/fact/thr_repor...
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Does anyone know where...?
i can (a) get a pair of kids golf shoes for $20 or less OR (b)a brown pair of kids two tone shoes for $20 or less OR (c) a brown pair of kids oxford shoes for $20 or less. if anyone could help me out, i would greatly appreciate it!!!!! thanks!
Does anyone know where...?
Yup, you can get all these prodects at SoHo.com. they have everything!
Reply:Pay-Less Shoe store,or wal-Mart shoe department.
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Does anyone know where...?
Yup, you can get all these prodects at SoHo.com. they have everything!
Reply:Pay-Less Shoe store,or wal-Mart shoe department.
hair care
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