Two crates, one with mass 4.00 kg and the other with mass 6.00 kg, sit on the frictionless surface of a frozen pond, connected by a light rope . A woman wearing golf shoes (so she can get traction on the ice) pulls horizontally on the 6.00-kg crate with a force F that gives the crate an acceleration of 2.90 m/s^2.
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What is the acceleration of the 4.00-kg crate?
Use Newton%26#039;s second law to find the tension T in the rope that connects the two crates.
Which is larger in magnitude, force T or force F?
Use part (C) and Newton%26#039;s second law to calculate the magnitude of the force F.
Newtons laws?
4 --T---- 6 --%26gt;%26gt;F , ....and a=2.7
The 4 %26amp; 6 kg objects have the same systematic %26quot;a%26quot;....Ans(1)
By Newton%26#039;s 2nd law:
F=ma=%26gt;F=(4+6)2.7=%26gt;F=27(N).Ans(4)
F=ma=%26gt;T=4x2.7 =%26gt;T=10.8(N)Ans(2)
..The F is larger .....Ans(3)
Reply:your link to the diagram isn%26#039;t working
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Tuesday, April 14, 2009
...the shoebox full of eggs...?
One day a man is looking for his golf shoes. When he looks under his bed, he finds a shoebox with 3 eggs,$28 dollars in quarters and a roll of cash with 3,500 wrapped in a rubber band.
He asks his wife %26quot;Honey what is with the shoebox with the eggs and the money?%26quot;
The wife breaks down and tells the husband, %26quot;Everytime I have cheated on you, I placed an egg in the shoebox.%26quot;
The husband contemplates this for a moment then states %26quot;I am hurt, but we have been married for 32 years, so I suppose 3 indiscrections in that many years can be forgiven.%26quot;
Then the man asks, %26quot;But what is the cash for?%26quot;
The wife states %26quot;Everytime I collected a dozen, I sold them for a quarter.%26quot;
Peace=)
...the shoebox full of eggs...?
LMAO...she was a busy lady but shouldnt he have notice what was going on during the 32yrs IMO =) still very funny thou =)
Reply:nice one.
Reply:Hahaha, thats a good one...I%26#039;m going to have to steal it from you
Reply:an oldie but a goodie. thanks
Reply:Horrible for the man but very funny joke.
Reply:Heard it before, bit it%26#039;s funny!
Reply:that was pretty good. rude but good :)
Reply:That is one busy lady.
Reply:How funny....But the husband%26#039;s rich now!!
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He asks his wife %26quot;Honey what is with the shoebox with the eggs and the money?%26quot;
The wife breaks down and tells the husband, %26quot;Everytime I have cheated on you, I placed an egg in the shoebox.%26quot;
The husband contemplates this for a moment then states %26quot;I am hurt, but we have been married for 32 years, so I suppose 3 indiscrections in that many years can be forgiven.%26quot;
Then the man asks, %26quot;But what is the cash for?%26quot;
The wife states %26quot;Everytime I collected a dozen, I sold them for a quarter.%26quot;
Peace=)
...the shoebox full of eggs...?
LMAO...she was a busy lady but shouldnt he have notice what was going on during the 32yrs IMO =) still very funny thou =)
Reply:nice one.
Reply:Hahaha, thats a good one...I%26#039;m going to have to steal it from you
Reply:an oldie but a goodie. thanks
Reply:Horrible for the man but very funny joke.
Reply:Heard it before, bit it%26#039;s funny!
Reply:that was pretty good. rude but good :)
Reply:That is one busy lady.
Reply:How funny....But the husband%26#039;s rich now!!
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Londons 4x4 community making my blood boil >:O(?
It%26#039;s not the muppets driving them, new money thinking they%26#039;re the dogs b*llocks, it%26#039;s the amount of fuel these things chew through when driving between the endless sea of London%26#039;s traffic lights. What%26#039;s your average speed in London btw? 10 - 15 mph? Do the owners just not care about the environment? Do they offset their carbon budget? Should I run over them in my metal-spiked golf shoes?
Londons 4x4 community making my blood boil %26gt;:O(?
Most of the trendy SUV%26#039;s are front wheel drive and only go into 4 wheel drive when they sense on of the drive wheels loosing grip, this is an excellent safety feature. So they do not use any more fuel than any other car of equivalent size.
This campaign is simply the politics of hate and envy, typical of the loony left. It seems always to be a favourite ploy to target some small, easily identifiable group and then blame them for your problems, it%26#039;s called scapegoating. So, open your eyes, do some research, and stop swallowing extremist propaganda
Reply:First of all the fact that a car is a 4x4 just means it has a different system of gears to any other car how can this harm the enviroment.
If you want to save the planet then think about all the badly maintaned small cars and all the other large engined estates, sport cars and people carriers.
Stop picking on 4x4 owners do some research and get off the band wagon try thinking for yourself instead of being lead by the popular mass who are told what they should think by the media.
Reply:Exactly where do you get off getting mad at other peoples choices. It is none of your affair what they drive and you need to get over yourself.
Reply:Contrary to popular belief, carbon is not rationed. It is just an element.
Don%26#039;t fall for the enviro-hysteria that is currently in vogue.
Reply:What?? I thought the sky-high gas taxes over there prevented that sort of thing!
Reply:jealous chap aren%26#039;t you.
Reply:London has made you hard. Move to New York.
Reply:Ony time it is acceptable to have a 4X4
- If you are regularly pulling a caravan / Horse box / other type trailer.
- If you are some kind of rescue / army / repair service.
- If you are a farmer and using it as part of your work
- If you go regularly OFF ROAD.
ALL OTHER TIMES YOU THEY ARE SELFISH SNOBS WHO DON%26#039;T GIVE A STUFF ABOUT OTHERS AND ARE ONLY INTERESTED IN IMAGE AND SHOWING OFF HOW MUCH CASH THEY CAN SPEND.
Reply:The carbon credit scheme allows your elite a pass while you all are FORCED to make sacrifices.
Get used to it and the widening gap between the haves and have nots.
Reply:Relax dude, it%26#039;s their gas money. If they want to blow it in their big car, let them. It doesn%26#039;t do anything to effect you.
Global warming isn%26#039;t real. The Earth will get cooler on it%26#039;s own in a couple of years.
Reply:Grrr... Rargh...
Oh look! It%26#039;s the green eyed monster!
Reply:They should all use the U-Bahn-BART. It is the best way to go when you are in London. They should also walk around as much as possible. I went on several original %26quot;London Walks%26quot; that included the %26quot;pub walk, crawl at the end%26quot;, British Museum walk, and the Jack the Ripper walk...that gave me the boo boo jee bees. I produced no carbon at all, however, I did go through 3 cases of bleedin%26#039; of Watney%26#039;s red Barrel, 4 bubble %26amp; sqeaks, 6 bangers %26amp; mash, 7 baskets of chips, 2 rounds of Double Gloucester, 9 toads in the hole, 7 jellied eels, and a bucket of beans with pate on top.
Jump up and down on them with your spiked shoes and shout %26quot;mind the gap%26quot; for the Church of Al, you pusillanimous lugubrious insipid fat-kidneyed rump-fed reeky elf-skinned toad-spotted mumble-news yeasty kind-kissing punkah!! ts
Reply:Get yourself a sniper rifle.
Reply:Think of them when you look at the price of petrol on the gas pump. You owe it all to them!
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Londons 4x4 community making my blood boil %26gt;:O(?
Most of the trendy SUV%26#039;s are front wheel drive and only go into 4 wheel drive when they sense on of the drive wheels loosing grip, this is an excellent safety feature. So they do not use any more fuel than any other car of equivalent size.
This campaign is simply the politics of hate and envy, typical of the loony left. It seems always to be a favourite ploy to target some small, easily identifiable group and then blame them for your problems, it%26#039;s called scapegoating. So, open your eyes, do some research, and stop swallowing extremist propaganda
Reply:First of all the fact that a car is a 4x4 just means it has a different system of gears to any other car how can this harm the enviroment.
If you want to save the planet then think about all the badly maintaned small cars and all the other large engined estates, sport cars and people carriers.
Stop picking on 4x4 owners do some research and get off the band wagon try thinking for yourself instead of being lead by the popular mass who are told what they should think by the media.
Reply:Exactly where do you get off getting mad at other peoples choices. It is none of your affair what they drive and you need to get over yourself.
Reply:Contrary to popular belief, carbon is not rationed. It is just an element.
Don%26#039;t fall for the enviro-hysteria that is currently in vogue.
Reply:What?? I thought the sky-high gas taxes over there prevented that sort of thing!
Reply:jealous chap aren%26#039;t you.
Reply:London has made you hard. Move to New York.
Reply:Ony time it is acceptable to have a 4X4
- If you are regularly pulling a caravan / Horse box / other type trailer.
- If you are some kind of rescue / army / repair service.
- If you are a farmer and using it as part of your work
- If you go regularly OFF ROAD.
ALL OTHER TIMES YOU THEY ARE SELFISH SNOBS WHO DON%26#039;T GIVE A STUFF ABOUT OTHERS AND ARE ONLY INTERESTED IN IMAGE AND SHOWING OFF HOW MUCH CASH THEY CAN SPEND.
Reply:The carbon credit scheme allows your elite a pass while you all are FORCED to make sacrifices.
Get used to it and the widening gap between the haves and have nots.
Reply:Relax dude, it%26#039;s their gas money. If they want to blow it in their big car, let them. It doesn%26#039;t do anything to effect you.
Global warming isn%26#039;t real. The Earth will get cooler on it%26#039;s own in a couple of years.
Reply:Grrr... Rargh...
Oh look! It%26#039;s the green eyed monster!
Reply:They should all use the U-Bahn-BART. It is the best way to go when you are in London. They should also walk around as much as possible. I went on several original %26quot;London Walks%26quot; that included the %26quot;pub walk, crawl at the end%26quot;, British Museum walk, and the Jack the Ripper walk...that gave me the boo boo jee bees. I produced no carbon at all, however, I did go through 3 cases of bleedin%26#039; of Watney%26#039;s red Barrel, 4 bubble %26amp; sqeaks, 6 bangers %26amp; mash, 7 baskets of chips, 2 rounds of Double Gloucester, 9 toads in the hole, 7 jellied eels, and a bucket of beans with pate on top.
Jump up and down on them with your spiked shoes and shout %26quot;mind the gap%26quot; for the Church of Al, you pusillanimous lugubrious insipid fat-kidneyed rump-fed reeky elf-skinned toad-spotted mumble-news yeasty kind-kissing punkah!! ts
Reply:Get yourself a sniper rifle.
Reply:Think of them when you look at the price of petrol on the gas pump. You owe it all to them!
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How much do you need?
to start golf, shoes,iron, driver, bag, jacket, i%26#039;m sure it%26#039;s expenisve, so how much do i need to start golf?
How much do you need?
With only about US$ 500, you can start hit the golf balls and have the clubs.
For the starter, you need golf club... prepare about US$ 250-350, I suggest you to buy used clubs... with this way, you can get better golf club compare to buy new golf club with the same price.
Shoes... you can find golf shoes start from US$ 30...
jacket... for starter, I dont think you need this.
If you already have this clubs, then you need go to driving range.... it cost you about US$ 10 / bucket (about 100 balls), see my next suggestion... you can save money on this.
Another thing you need is a teacher, as the beginner I dont think you need level III teaching pro... find a teaching pro that cost about US$ 40/ hour...
How to save money... it very important:
When you take lesson, try understand what the teacher teach you... It will be very difficult to able to do what the teacher said.. it need practice and it take time.
How to save money on practice... if you have a enough space in your house... then buy a plastics matt and dozens of ping pong ball. If you have time then hit this ping pong balls, collect it then hit it again. With this way, you can save hundreds $$$ with the same result. The reason is, for starter you only learn how to swing the club and try to make good contact (mostly people dont have good contact yet for first few thousands swings). After you can hit the ball more than 50% with good contact... then you start go to driving range and use their ball because you want to see how the ball fly.
Reply:well a starter set of golf clubs can run anywhere from 150-300 dollars, shoes from 40-125, and you will more than likely want to get a few lessons before heading out in public so figure around 500-700 total for gear and clothing and a lesson or 2.
Reply:check out http://monarkgolf/ under $400 US. there not bad clubs just inexpensive.
Reply:When I first started, someone gave me a set of irons and wedges that they had just laying around. I had to purchase the driver and woods. I did not play using golf shoes for quite a while. I did purchase some balls, tees, and a bag for my new set of clubs. Total purchase to start was under $200.
I found pretty early on that I loved the game and slowly added to my collection of equipment as I could afford it.
My suggestion to you is to start slowly and build when you know that this game is for you.
BTW I still have that first set of clubs, a very old set of Cobras.
Reply:$800 and up! This will get you a decent set of clubs, mid grade shoes, ie Footjoys, a putter, few wedges, a few shirts, couple dozen balls, and you are good to go. The cheapest is not always the best as far as golf goes, neither is the most expensive.
If you know someone who has an older set of clubs that may be your best bet if you are brand new to golf. It is a considerable investment, I may spend sometime at the range with a borrowed set, before I made the investment into the world of golf. If you get %26quot;bit%26quot; by the game, then go ahead and spend the money, trust me, whether of not you want to, you will spend all sorts of money on the game. Also, get lessons if you are brand new to the game, it is always best to start swinging correctly and from there is the sky is the limit. Good luck!
Reply:Yea, they got that right... $500 should be enough to get you started. Clubs and Shoes... clothes, just wear anything decent.
Then just upgrade your clubs once you get better with the fundamentals.
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How much do you need?
With only about US$ 500, you can start hit the golf balls and have the clubs.
For the starter, you need golf club... prepare about US$ 250-350, I suggest you to buy used clubs... with this way, you can get better golf club compare to buy new golf club with the same price.
Shoes... you can find golf shoes start from US$ 30...
jacket... for starter, I dont think you need this.
If you already have this clubs, then you need go to driving range.... it cost you about US$ 10 / bucket (about 100 balls), see my next suggestion... you can save money on this.
Another thing you need is a teacher, as the beginner I dont think you need level III teaching pro... find a teaching pro that cost about US$ 40/ hour...
How to save money... it very important:
When you take lesson, try understand what the teacher teach you... It will be very difficult to able to do what the teacher said.. it need practice and it take time.
How to save money on practice... if you have a enough space in your house... then buy a plastics matt and dozens of ping pong ball. If you have time then hit this ping pong balls, collect it then hit it again. With this way, you can save hundreds $$$ with the same result. The reason is, for starter you only learn how to swing the club and try to make good contact (mostly people dont have good contact yet for first few thousands swings). After you can hit the ball more than 50% with good contact... then you start go to driving range and use their ball because you want to see how the ball fly.
Reply:well a starter set of golf clubs can run anywhere from 150-300 dollars, shoes from 40-125, and you will more than likely want to get a few lessons before heading out in public so figure around 500-700 total for gear and clothing and a lesson or 2.
Reply:check out http://monarkgolf/ under $400 US. there not bad clubs just inexpensive.
Reply:When I first started, someone gave me a set of irons and wedges that they had just laying around. I had to purchase the driver and woods. I did not play using golf shoes for quite a while. I did purchase some balls, tees, and a bag for my new set of clubs. Total purchase to start was under $200.
I found pretty early on that I loved the game and slowly added to my collection of equipment as I could afford it.
My suggestion to you is to start slowly and build when you know that this game is for you.
BTW I still have that first set of clubs, a very old set of Cobras.
Reply:$800 and up! This will get you a decent set of clubs, mid grade shoes, ie Footjoys, a putter, few wedges, a few shirts, couple dozen balls, and you are good to go. The cheapest is not always the best as far as golf goes, neither is the most expensive.
If you know someone who has an older set of clubs that may be your best bet if you are brand new to golf. It is a considerable investment, I may spend sometime at the range with a borrowed set, before I made the investment into the world of golf. If you get %26quot;bit%26quot; by the game, then go ahead and spend the money, trust me, whether of not you want to, you will spend all sorts of money on the game. Also, get lessons if you are brand new to the game, it is always best to start swinging correctly and from there is the sky is the limit. Good luck!
Reply:Yea, they got that right... $500 should be enough to get you started. Clubs and Shoes... clothes, just wear anything decent.
Then just upgrade your clubs once you get better with the fundamentals.
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Ladies what would you think if you found condoms in your husbands trunk?
Ladies, today I went to the garage and I opened my husbands trunk (car) and what I found surprised me and hurt me. Neatly, placed in his golf shoes were four unopened condoms. We don%26#039;t use condoms. What would you think if you found what I found? Stupid question???? Is he cheating? I asked him about the condoms and before he could answer I told him I wanted a divorce. When he heard me ask for a divorce he said he didn%26#039;t need to answer any questions since I was wanting a divorce. Am I crazy? Am I crazy to believe that he is cheating? The condoms were so neatly stashed in his shoes. I am feeling a little guilty for not listening to his answer and demanding divorce.
Ladies what would you think if you found condoms in your husbands trunk?
No you are not. And if he can%26#039;t understand why you are upset and give you an explanation, he probably doesn%26#039;t give a damn about you. He is coming off with a lot of attitude for a someone who should be apologizing and feeling guilty. God, men are something else.
Reply:at least wait for his lame @ss excuse!!!!
Reply:I think you should have heard him out before asking for a divorce but hind sight is always 20/20. I can%26#039;t think of a reasonable explanation for condoms in his golf shoes though. I would be curious as to how he would explain them. I don%26#039;t think you are crazy or stupid. Some people believe their spouses are cheating with a lot less evidence than this so don%26#039;t beet yourself up too much.
I think you should try and get him to talk to you regardless so that you can know one way or the other and if there is any chance of staying together (if you want to stay together that is).
Good Luck.
Reply:girl if he won%26#039;t give you an explaination then hes cheating, just get out before it gets nasty- and plus if he was upset then hes definantly cheating
Reply:There is no possible answer that could explain that away!
And since he didn%26#039;t fight you, try to explain, then he is ready for the divorce too.
If he thought you were worth it, he would have dropped to his knees and begged to explain. He didn%26#039;t.
Maybe he wanted to get caught, so you could be the one to end the relationship.
Reply:If you want a divorce so quickly and hastily after that, I think it says a lot about YOUR committment to the relationship. Have you been unhappy and looking for a reason to get out of your marriage?
I%26#039;m sorry, I may be way off base with that, but you had a very a quick decision that is questionable. Maybe you were just extremely angry and emotional, but either way, I don%26#039;t think your reaction was a good one.
I agree it doesn%26#039;t look good, I can%26#039;t think of a viable reason why a married man would have condoms in his shoes. But you never know, talk to him about it, don%26#039;t shout and accuse, ask for the logical explanation. Hopefully, there is one. It seems you both reacted in an angry and hasty manner, I have a feeling your marital troubles preceded this incident. Both you and your husband seem very angry and unable to communicate properly with each other.
How long have you guys been married?
Have you guys ever used condoms?
Are they possibly left over from another time or another woman?
EDIT: Hi, I just read your previous questions and I see that I was correct, you and your husband have severe marital issues that preceded this event. You say he is verbally abusive and tells you no one would ever want you. A man like this will almost surely cheat on you, so I am sorry to say it looks like you are right. I have a feeling you want out of this marriage and honestly, I don%26#039;t think it would be a bad idea. I almost never encourage divorce, but if he is unwilling to seek help or counseling for his behavior, it would be best if you separate from him. Especially if he has ever physically hurt you. You are not worthless and you do not deserve to put up with this kind of abuse. Please talk to him about getting both individual and couples counseling, you two are in a very bad situation and you are being lied to and taken advantage of. You deserve better than this, I pray he will come to his senses, but if not, please don%26#039;t waste your life on this loser.
Reply:well if u told him u want a divorce and he didnt even act like no no and he said if we gettin a divorce i dont need 2 explain myself 2 u then he dont llove u, im sorry 2 say but it seems that way and then if he wasnt cheating he could of juss told u he wasnt buh cuz he said he dont need 2 explain meelf 2 u hes got no answer ready, he probly didnt expect u 2 find dem. see how many condoms u get in a pack, normaly u get 3 or 6 and if theres 4 theres a possibility that he could of used 2 of dem
Reply:You%26#039;re not overreacting. What a creep. I%26#039;m sorry. Since he didn%26#039;t even argue with you, i%26#039;d say he%26#039;s guilty.
Reply:listen to him maybe he wanted to cheat but he did not have the heart to do it so he just stucked the condoms in his shoe until he could dispose of them...ask him and let him know that although you accused him you would like to know the truth.
Reply:So you should. You should at least have heard him out before jumping to something as big as divorce. No matter what happens with the marriage, you will wonder about it the rest of your life. Divorce won%26#039;t give you closure.
When you calm down, try talking to your husband again and find out what really happened. Its likely you are right, but wouldn%26#039;t you kick yourself if you got divorced and you were wrong?
Reply:What would I think? I think that he needs to get a better job. Not only to afford a dang hotel room, but because he%26#039;s going to need it for alimony and child support.
He%26#039;s cheating honey, don%26#039;t let him tell you otherwise. If you buy those excuses, you%26#039;ll be the one kicking yourself for being so foolish. You deserve better and even you know it. This isn%26#039;t what you signed up for.
Reply:His lack of response would indicate that he doesn%26#039;t care one way or another if you stay or leave. The condoms mean he%26#039;s cheating. There is no other explanation, he probably couldn%26#039;t think of one either. Sorry
Reply:well considering your married and dont use condoms you would have EVERY right to think he is cheating. why else would he need a box of condoms!! you better handle this soon before it goes on any further. there is NO explaination for this... just excuses and lies.
Reply:You know in your heart what the problem is. Trust your gut, and think about this completely before making a life changing decision.
I hope everything works out for you.
Reply:yes he is cheating. am a male and if i was married i certainly wouldn%26#039;t buy condoms. if i did i would not hide them in my shoes. your not crazy ether.
Reply:One thing and only-CHEATER!! Why eles would they be in the trunk other than he is cheating on you..Im sorry luv..that blows!!
Reply:I would investigate and find out somehow if he was on the golf course the last time he told you he was going there. I would also check my cell phone for strange numbers and the time calls were made. Then I would look at all my credit card statements under resturants and amount of bill. This could give you a clue if the bill was rather pricey for only one person. Check ATM withdrawals time and dates. Think back to any overtime and check his check stubs if he isn%26#039;t salary....check every possible paper trail you can think of because you may find evidence there. The fact that you found condoms would give anyone reason to believe that your husband is up to no good. If it were me there would be no peace in my house untill I got the truth and he better not lie to me because there are std%26#039;s out there that not even a condom can protect you from!! I would say HELL NO and get mad as hell and be a crazy woman. He is buying himself time to think up a good story for you finding the condoms in his golf shoes. To avoid you after making the comment about divorce would be reason enough for him to to have told you right then and there what the hell was going on! I guess when he does speak out to you about it he will say someone played a dirty joke on him at the golf course and put them there.....don%26#039;t buy the story because if someone done that your husband would be mad enough to jump anyones behind that could cause him to have maritial problems over it! As long as he remains silent he has time to get with one of the guys and have a good story to back him up...so make him talk now and tear the house down like a bull in a china shop when you do!! Take care and be strong I know this is making you sick.
Reply:I would think he was cheating and trying to hide it.
Reply:I am a guy. Throw him in the trunk with his condoms.
Reply:Yes, you should have let him explain and the decide if you bought the story or not. I would say if he has condoms he must be thinking about cheating if he has not all ready!
Reply:If I had found condoms in my husband%26#039;s golf shoes....I would be VERY SUSPICIOUS!...You and your husband had no reason to be using condoms. Him refusing to explain the condoms because you already said you wanted a divorce tells me is very guilty of something. Why do you feel guilty for not listening to his explanation? Let me guess...he was holding them for a friend right? or....lets see...he was going to use them on himself while he masturbates...YEAH RIGHT!
Reply:if he didn%26#039;t even try to explain, he is guilty....
Reply:Why are you girls so quick to jump to the conclusion that the husband is cheating here?
Just because he has condoms in his shoes!
Haven%26#039;t you heard that condoms are the best things out for blisters caused by tight shoes? Playing golf requires a lot of walking - thus blisters often appear.
Nearly all golfers carry condoms %26amp; pull them over the part of the toe or foot where blisters appear. Good remedy, eh?
Trust me - would I lie to you?
Reply:Well you are a smart woman to tell him that you want a divoice because if you two dont use condoms then why does he have them?? His answers most likly would have a been a lie anyone and you arent crazy you are being smart about it because there is no reason why they should have been hiding in his shoes if he wasnt doing something wrong...good luck
Reply:First of all, divorce is not the answer but marriage counseling is. If he is cheating, you will come to know the problems surrounding the reasons and get help to recover from this setback in your relationship. But if you think divorce is going to solve your marriage problems, your wrong, it adds only to more pain that is like a snowball rolling down a hill. Stop it now and seek godly advice from your Pastor or from a Church counseling center..
Reply:I%26#039;d assume he was cheating, why else would he have the condoms? You are not crazy! My best advice is to go with your gut. What%26#039;s it say?
Reply:Sorry to say this but hes cheating on you!! If u guys dont use condoms together then hes obviesl using them on someone else!!
Reply:hmmmmmmmmmmm wheres the rest of them ...there are more than 4 to a box?
Reply:If he had condoms and you guys don%26#039;t use them together, unless he%26#039;s screwing a horse or something...he%26#039;s cheating on you.
Reply:I don%26#039;t blame you in the least for being suspicious . Honestly, what other conclusions are you expected to come to when you discover something like that??? Even if you didn%26#039;t wait for him to answer, he should have enough decency to give you an explanation. I mean, you%26#039;re his wife for god%26#039;s sake, that%26#039;s more than enough reason for one! In the heat of the moment you said you wanted a divorce, but that doesnt give him the right not to tell you exactly why there are condoms hidden in his car.
By saying he doesnt need to answer to your accusations, he%26#039;s trying to elude the confrontation, which is pretty cowardly and CHEAP of him.
Reply:leave him
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Ladies what would you think if you found condoms in your husbands trunk?
No you are not. And if he can%26#039;t understand why you are upset and give you an explanation, he probably doesn%26#039;t give a damn about you. He is coming off with a lot of attitude for a someone who should be apologizing and feeling guilty. God, men are something else.
Reply:at least wait for his lame @ss excuse!!!!
Reply:I think you should have heard him out before asking for a divorce but hind sight is always 20/20. I can%26#039;t think of a reasonable explanation for condoms in his golf shoes though. I would be curious as to how he would explain them. I don%26#039;t think you are crazy or stupid. Some people believe their spouses are cheating with a lot less evidence than this so don%26#039;t beet yourself up too much.
I think you should try and get him to talk to you regardless so that you can know one way or the other and if there is any chance of staying together (if you want to stay together that is).
Good Luck.
Reply:girl if he won%26#039;t give you an explaination then hes cheating, just get out before it gets nasty- and plus if he was upset then hes definantly cheating
Reply:There is no possible answer that could explain that away!
And since he didn%26#039;t fight you, try to explain, then he is ready for the divorce too.
If he thought you were worth it, he would have dropped to his knees and begged to explain. He didn%26#039;t.
Maybe he wanted to get caught, so you could be the one to end the relationship.
Reply:If you want a divorce so quickly and hastily after that, I think it says a lot about YOUR committment to the relationship. Have you been unhappy and looking for a reason to get out of your marriage?
I%26#039;m sorry, I may be way off base with that, but you had a very a quick decision that is questionable. Maybe you were just extremely angry and emotional, but either way, I don%26#039;t think your reaction was a good one.
I agree it doesn%26#039;t look good, I can%26#039;t think of a viable reason why a married man would have condoms in his shoes. But you never know, talk to him about it, don%26#039;t shout and accuse, ask for the logical explanation. Hopefully, there is one. It seems you both reacted in an angry and hasty manner, I have a feeling your marital troubles preceded this incident. Both you and your husband seem very angry and unable to communicate properly with each other.
How long have you guys been married?
Have you guys ever used condoms?
Are they possibly left over from another time or another woman?
EDIT: Hi, I just read your previous questions and I see that I was correct, you and your husband have severe marital issues that preceded this event. You say he is verbally abusive and tells you no one would ever want you. A man like this will almost surely cheat on you, so I am sorry to say it looks like you are right. I have a feeling you want out of this marriage and honestly, I don%26#039;t think it would be a bad idea. I almost never encourage divorce, but if he is unwilling to seek help or counseling for his behavior, it would be best if you separate from him. Especially if he has ever physically hurt you. You are not worthless and you do not deserve to put up with this kind of abuse. Please talk to him about getting both individual and couples counseling, you two are in a very bad situation and you are being lied to and taken advantage of. You deserve better than this, I pray he will come to his senses, but if not, please don%26#039;t waste your life on this loser.
Reply:well if u told him u want a divorce and he didnt even act like no no and he said if we gettin a divorce i dont need 2 explain myself 2 u then he dont llove u, im sorry 2 say but it seems that way and then if he wasnt cheating he could of juss told u he wasnt buh cuz he said he dont need 2 explain meelf 2 u hes got no answer ready, he probly didnt expect u 2 find dem. see how many condoms u get in a pack, normaly u get 3 or 6 and if theres 4 theres a possibility that he could of used 2 of dem
Reply:You%26#039;re not overreacting. What a creep. I%26#039;m sorry. Since he didn%26#039;t even argue with you, i%26#039;d say he%26#039;s guilty.
Reply:listen to him maybe he wanted to cheat but he did not have the heart to do it so he just stucked the condoms in his shoe until he could dispose of them...ask him and let him know that although you accused him you would like to know the truth.
Reply:So you should. You should at least have heard him out before jumping to something as big as divorce. No matter what happens with the marriage, you will wonder about it the rest of your life. Divorce won%26#039;t give you closure.
When you calm down, try talking to your husband again and find out what really happened. Its likely you are right, but wouldn%26#039;t you kick yourself if you got divorced and you were wrong?
Reply:What would I think? I think that he needs to get a better job. Not only to afford a dang hotel room, but because he%26#039;s going to need it for alimony and child support.
He%26#039;s cheating honey, don%26#039;t let him tell you otherwise. If you buy those excuses, you%26#039;ll be the one kicking yourself for being so foolish. You deserve better and even you know it. This isn%26#039;t what you signed up for.
Reply:His lack of response would indicate that he doesn%26#039;t care one way or another if you stay or leave. The condoms mean he%26#039;s cheating. There is no other explanation, he probably couldn%26#039;t think of one either. Sorry
Reply:well considering your married and dont use condoms you would have EVERY right to think he is cheating. why else would he need a box of condoms!! you better handle this soon before it goes on any further. there is NO explaination for this... just excuses and lies.
Reply:You know in your heart what the problem is. Trust your gut, and think about this completely before making a life changing decision.
I hope everything works out for you.
Reply:yes he is cheating. am a male and if i was married i certainly wouldn%26#039;t buy condoms. if i did i would not hide them in my shoes. your not crazy ether.
Reply:One thing and only-CHEATER!! Why eles would they be in the trunk other than he is cheating on you..Im sorry luv..that blows!!
Reply:I would investigate and find out somehow if he was on the golf course the last time he told you he was going there. I would also check my cell phone for strange numbers and the time calls were made. Then I would look at all my credit card statements under resturants and amount of bill. This could give you a clue if the bill was rather pricey for only one person. Check ATM withdrawals time and dates. Think back to any overtime and check his check stubs if he isn%26#039;t salary....check every possible paper trail you can think of because you may find evidence there. The fact that you found condoms would give anyone reason to believe that your husband is up to no good. If it were me there would be no peace in my house untill I got the truth and he better not lie to me because there are std%26#039;s out there that not even a condom can protect you from!! I would say HELL NO and get mad as hell and be a crazy woman. He is buying himself time to think up a good story for you finding the condoms in his golf shoes. To avoid you after making the comment about divorce would be reason enough for him to to have told you right then and there what the hell was going on! I guess when he does speak out to you about it he will say someone played a dirty joke on him at the golf course and put them there.....don%26#039;t buy the story because if someone done that your husband would be mad enough to jump anyones behind that could cause him to have maritial problems over it! As long as he remains silent he has time to get with one of the guys and have a good story to back him up...so make him talk now and tear the house down like a bull in a china shop when you do!! Take care and be strong I know this is making you sick.
Reply:I would think he was cheating and trying to hide it.
Reply:I am a guy. Throw him in the trunk with his condoms.
Reply:Yes, you should have let him explain and the decide if you bought the story or not. I would say if he has condoms he must be thinking about cheating if he has not all ready!
Reply:If I had found condoms in my husband%26#039;s golf shoes....I would be VERY SUSPICIOUS!...You and your husband had no reason to be using condoms. Him refusing to explain the condoms because you already said you wanted a divorce tells me is very guilty of something. Why do you feel guilty for not listening to his explanation? Let me guess...he was holding them for a friend right? or....lets see...he was going to use them on himself while he masturbates...YEAH RIGHT!
Reply:if he didn%26#039;t even try to explain, he is guilty....
Reply:Why are you girls so quick to jump to the conclusion that the husband is cheating here?
Just because he has condoms in his shoes!
Haven%26#039;t you heard that condoms are the best things out for blisters caused by tight shoes? Playing golf requires a lot of walking - thus blisters often appear.
Nearly all golfers carry condoms %26amp; pull them over the part of the toe or foot where blisters appear. Good remedy, eh?
Trust me - would I lie to you?
Reply:Well you are a smart woman to tell him that you want a divoice because if you two dont use condoms then why does he have them?? His answers most likly would have a been a lie anyone and you arent crazy you are being smart about it because there is no reason why they should have been hiding in his shoes if he wasnt doing something wrong...good luck
Reply:First of all, divorce is not the answer but marriage counseling is. If he is cheating, you will come to know the problems surrounding the reasons and get help to recover from this setback in your relationship. But if you think divorce is going to solve your marriage problems, your wrong, it adds only to more pain that is like a snowball rolling down a hill. Stop it now and seek godly advice from your Pastor or from a Church counseling center..
Reply:I%26#039;d assume he was cheating, why else would he have the condoms? You are not crazy! My best advice is to go with your gut. What%26#039;s it say?
Reply:Sorry to say this but hes cheating on you!! If u guys dont use condoms together then hes obviesl using them on someone else!!
Reply:hmmmmmmmmmmm wheres the rest of them ...there are more than 4 to a box?
Reply:If he had condoms and you guys don%26#039;t use them together, unless he%26#039;s screwing a horse or something...he%26#039;s cheating on you.
Reply:I don%26#039;t blame you in the least for being suspicious . Honestly, what other conclusions are you expected to come to when you discover something like that??? Even if you didn%26#039;t wait for him to answer, he should have enough decency to give you an explanation. I mean, you%26#039;re his wife for god%26#039;s sake, that%26#039;s more than enough reason for one! In the heat of the moment you said you wanted a divorce, but that doesnt give him the right not to tell you exactly why there are condoms hidden in his car.
By saying he doesnt need to answer to your accusations, he%26#039;s trying to elude the confrontation, which is pretty cowardly and CHEAP of him.
Reply:leave him
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What are some props Kramer uses in Seinfeld? I'm being Kramer for Halloween and I need help!!!?
Any ideas on what other props I can use or other ideas? So far I am wearing a cheap tacky jacket, with short khakis and golf shoes, with a wig and cigar and golf club. What else could I do?
What are some props Kramer uses in Seinfeld? I%26#039;m being Kramer for Halloween and I need help!!!?
I had a shirt with Kramer dressed in a gray blazer over a light blue button up shirt surrounded by a gold frame. Try the gold frame.
Reply:i think if you could pull off the crazy hair thats all you need
Reply:A license plate on your back that says A*SMAN.
Do you remember the the episode in which Kramer was mistakenly sent the personalized license plates of a proctologist that read : AS*MAN?
Have fun!
Reply:10 cent Michigan deposit bottles
Fruit
keys to Jerry%26#039;s apartment
Reply:If you can get the hair right you got it all.
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What are some props Kramer uses in Seinfeld? I%26#039;m being Kramer for Halloween and I need help!!!?
I had a shirt with Kramer dressed in a gray blazer over a light blue button up shirt surrounded by a gold frame. Try the gold frame.
Reply:i think if you could pull off the crazy hair thats all you need
Reply:A license plate on your back that says A*SMAN.
Do you remember the the episode in which Kramer was mistakenly sent the personalized license plates of a proctologist that read : AS*MAN?
Have fun!
Reply:10 cent Michigan deposit bottles
Fruit
keys to Jerry%26#039;s apartment
Reply:If you can get the hair right you got it all.
skin problems
Ok do I tell him how hurt I am, or do I let it go?
25th anniversary, great card from my husband in the morning. Then....nothing. It fell on a tuesday, so we both had to work that day, and we have an ongoing function on tuesdays with other friends. The other friend has just lost his wife, and it was his b-day so neither one of us thought we could abandon him that day. We both agreed to celebrate the following weekend. Well we never did. I bought my husband new golf shoes, a driver and 6 golf lessons which I was thrilled to give him. His response was he felt bad he didn%26#039;t get me anything, he thought about having flowers sent to work, but knew that I was there alone that day and it wouldn%26#039;t have meant anything if no one was there to see me get them? Now I am totally confused. He knows that I really thought this was a huge milestone, I thought he did to. I mean we do things together all the time, and he tells me all the time were soulmates, but shouldn%26#039;t something special have happened. (continued)
Ok do I tell him how hurt I am, or do I let it go?
Tell it serectively and cleverly . You have reason to tell him that you hurt .
Reply:just tell him...
Reply:Us men aren%26#039;t as sentimental as you women are. The fact that he remembered a card on that day Is Just Amazing.....
There have been many times I forgot my anniversary. But, Got her a card the following weekend.
Its just the way we are......
Reply:I really can relate to this. I have a dutch husband and sometimes I think they have no emotions. It has taken me several years to even get him to give me a card. You see, men can just be idiots, even though they love us to death. Sounds like he loves you alot...but just is not good at this sort of thing. I DO tell my husband when he hurts me in this way and little by little he has gotten better...a work in progress every year.
I think you should tell him it hurt you and that you are dissappointed without being cruel about it (don%26#039;t dare hurt his ego), then suggest a dinner out to celebrate on a certain date. Maybe he will get the hint and plan it himself.
Reply:Maybe just maybe your hubby has plans but is not telling because he wants it to be a surprise. Maybe part of his plan is to have you think he%26#039;s not gonna do anything and when u least expect it SURPRISE!!!=-)
I mean 25 yrs is a milestone and I%26#039;m sure after things are clear for him to spring it on u he will
But if after awhile nothing happens don%26#039;t let it stop U from going out by yourself and celebrate Ur 25th alone go out and make a night or day of it.
Go shopping by yourself a nice outfit, get your nails done, facial, go to the hair salon, go to lunch and enjoy the rest of the day don%26#039;t let anything or anyone spoil your day no matter what happens just let it roll off u until after you%26#039;ve had a day of fun.
If Ur hubby happens to see u getting dressed and ask where Ur going just say Ur meeting some of Ur gal pals or better yet don%26#039;t let him see U getting ready to go out, let him see u come in fropm having a day of fun by yourself when he ask u wher ya been thats when u say with a smile ( remember don%26#039;t let anyone get u upset) I was out celebrating, when he says celebrating what say my 25th anniversary an I had a wonderful time sweetie. He ask why did u do it without him then just say I have been asking u for the longest if we could do something but u never seem to have the time so I thought I%26#039;d just go do it myself 25th anniversary only happens once so I figure I better enjoy it. I hope this will make him say %26quot; Honey I%26#039;m sorry and I want to take u out so we can celebrate together%26quot; and the two of U go out and have the best time ever =-)
Reply:Be glad he remembered, Don%26#039;t be so focused on Material things as a record of how much he loves you.
Reply:25th anniversary and no hoopla? You MUST confront him on this one.
Reply:You already asked this today. Didn%26#039;t you like the answers?
Reply:yes tell him your feelings....Never to late to celebrate!
Reply:tell him how you feel. men cant read minds, especially when it comes to women.
Reply:You have to let him know that this bothered you. 25 years is a big deal. Its typical of a man to not know that how he %26quot;celebrated%26quot; your anniversary would be upsetting to you.
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Ok do I tell him how hurt I am, or do I let it go?
Tell it serectively and cleverly . You have reason to tell him that you hurt .
Reply:just tell him...
Reply:Us men aren%26#039;t as sentimental as you women are. The fact that he remembered a card on that day Is Just Amazing.....
There have been many times I forgot my anniversary. But, Got her a card the following weekend.
Its just the way we are......
Reply:I really can relate to this. I have a dutch husband and sometimes I think they have no emotions. It has taken me several years to even get him to give me a card. You see, men can just be idiots, even though they love us to death. Sounds like he loves you alot...but just is not good at this sort of thing. I DO tell my husband when he hurts me in this way and little by little he has gotten better...a work in progress every year.
I think you should tell him it hurt you and that you are dissappointed without being cruel about it (don%26#039;t dare hurt his ego), then suggest a dinner out to celebrate on a certain date. Maybe he will get the hint and plan it himself.
Reply:Maybe just maybe your hubby has plans but is not telling because he wants it to be a surprise. Maybe part of his plan is to have you think he%26#039;s not gonna do anything and when u least expect it SURPRISE!!!=-)
I mean 25 yrs is a milestone and I%26#039;m sure after things are clear for him to spring it on u he will
But if after awhile nothing happens don%26#039;t let it stop U from going out by yourself and celebrate Ur 25th alone go out and make a night or day of it.
Go shopping by yourself a nice outfit, get your nails done, facial, go to the hair salon, go to lunch and enjoy the rest of the day don%26#039;t let anything or anyone spoil your day no matter what happens just let it roll off u until after you%26#039;ve had a day of fun.
If Ur hubby happens to see u getting dressed and ask where Ur going just say Ur meeting some of Ur gal pals or better yet don%26#039;t let him see U getting ready to go out, let him see u come in fropm having a day of fun by yourself when he ask u wher ya been thats when u say with a smile ( remember don%26#039;t let anyone get u upset) I was out celebrating, when he says celebrating what say my 25th anniversary an I had a wonderful time sweetie. He ask why did u do it without him then just say I have been asking u for the longest if we could do something but u never seem to have the time so I thought I%26#039;d just go do it myself 25th anniversary only happens once so I figure I better enjoy it. I hope this will make him say %26quot; Honey I%26#039;m sorry and I want to take u out so we can celebrate together%26quot; and the two of U go out and have the best time ever =-)
Reply:Be glad he remembered, Don%26#039;t be so focused on Material things as a record of how much he loves you.
Reply:25th anniversary and no hoopla? You MUST confront him on this one.
Reply:You already asked this today. Didn%26#039;t you like the answers?
Reply:yes tell him your feelings....Never to late to celebrate!
Reply:tell him how you feel. men cant read minds, especially when it comes to women.
Reply:You have to let him know that this bothered you. 25 years is a big deal. Its typical of a man to not know that how he %26quot;celebrated%26quot; your anniversary would be upsetting to you.
koffice
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