Tuesday, April 14, 2009

Should i be upset?(valentines "gift")?

Its valentines day the most romantic day of the year and although i know my husband isn%26#039;t romantic usually he has been known to come up trumps occassionally.


However this year i opened my card(which was very nice..) and inside was 10 lottery tickets.





im trying to grit my teeth and not say anything i might regret but lottery tickets!!!!


He loves golf so i gave him new set of golf shoes and speciality distance balls. i know u shouldnt give to receive but after 9 yrs marriage i get lottery tickets!!! can someone explain the reasoning behind that!!

Should i be upset?(valentines %26quot;gift%26quot;)?
You won%26#039;t complain if 6 numbers come up - WILL YOU
Reply:ah he obviously isn%26#039;t very good at this.


Keep your fingers crossed if you become a millionaire this weekend you won%26#039;t be complaining!
Reply:Monetary gifts for Valentines Day ARE pretty tacky - but at least you didn%26#039;t end up with a power drill. Before you plot his demise though, wait till the end of the day, maybe he has something else up his sleeve. I%26#039;m a guy and admittedly, we aren%26#039;t always the sharpest knives in the drawer when it comes to gifting women, but lottery tickets ? Even that%26#039;s a new low. (I hope you saved the receipt for the golf stuff !).
Reply:lol - if you win, you don%26#039;t necessarily have to share the dosh with him!!!
Reply:From my interpretation: You%26#039;re getting lucky tonight.
Reply:Well maybe if you%26#039;re this upset about it then next year you can get a divorce! Ha!
Reply:not original - but its different !





my fiance got that as her secret santa





P/S We havent even given each other cards today -





we choose when to be romantic and dont like being told when to





im making roast lamb tonight followed by %26quot;chick flick2 of her choice -
Reply:After nine years of marriage I reckon you%26#039;re lucky to even get a card, the tickets are just a bonus.
Reply:You know what some men can be like when it comes to buying presents - to us it seems thoughtless but they probably don%26#039;t know what to get. I%26#039;m lucky that my fiance is great at getting me thoughtful gifts but my dad is just like your husband!





Does he get you gifts at any other time other than special occasions? If he does and they%26#039;re thoughtful gifts, I wouldn%26#039;t worry too much. Valentine%26#039;s day isn%26#039;t the only day in the year to be romantic and show each other you care. And it%26#039;s how you spend the day together that%26#039;s important. My fiance didn%26#039;t get me a card, instead he sent an e-card, but he got me a thoughtful present so I let him off!
Reply:just kill him he lacks imagination if you one he would want half but you wouldnt want his golf balls would you
Reply:awwww i can understand why you so upset and angry after 9 yrs of marriage one wud expect a more thoughtful present, but (i know this line gets mentioned alot and although its not much of an excuse here) he is a man after all, and men really dont think do they! with him coming up trumps with presents before, i guess he knows what u like and has used jis brain on occasions like this before, but maybe he has had stuff on his mind, like money issues (hence the lotto tickets!) or maybe he totally forgot about it?? and realised last minute?





lets hope you win the millions hay!
Reply:well cross ur fingers on saturday, and get ready 2 book ur cruise (without him) and have fun
Reply:At least you got a card!! According to my partner, my card is still in the Card Shop! :0)





If you come up trumps tonight with 6 numbers on the lottery, go book a long holiday and take some friends, leave him behind.
Reply:Wow, men can be so clueless! Not a great gift for sure, but look on the positive side...he at least got you a nice card and made an attempt....some men don%26#039;t even bother doing that.
Reply:maybe he is trying to tell you that being with you is like winning the lottery! Ask him about it if you are unsure.
Reply:be grateful, after 16 years i got nish.lol
Reply:come on really what he is saying is that he want you to have everything but because he could not afford everything he gave you a chance to win it all!! i think its nice, you have to think like a man sometimes to understand there sense, believe me its helped me out!!! xx
Reply:well i guess the answer to your question depends on what he gave you on previous valentines days. if the presents were always more or less the same then i guess its just the way he is. if the presents used to be really nice then theres clearly something wrong... all u can do is cross your fingers and win! good luck!
Reply:if you won would you still complain..............
Reply:This morning i didnt get anything, i think valentines day is over priced, commerical and a chance for arguments to create. He got you a card and tickets, thats more than i got. Yes i do love to feel special and i expect tonight i will get a card but if men are not romantic dont be mad. I asked my partner to get me so roses and we agreed to have a nice bottle of plonk tonight and us time. What i think counts the most is things like that, not how much you spent or what fancy gifts you got. its knowing you apreciate one another and if he is good too you all year round, you have lovely times together all you aroundand he makes you feel special all year round, what does one day mean!!!


Dont stress, you may even win!!!
Reply:He is giving you the gift he always wanted.
Reply:See if you win. Then decide whether to be annoyed!! haha! I reckon it actually shows he has a good sense of humour. It may not be romantic but then... every day should be valentines day if you think about it and every day he should let you know he loves you. Have a laugh about it. You%26#039;d miss it if he was no longer around... By the way, if it makes you feel better, I know a guy who found a scarf on the floor and gave it to his girlfriend. Now THAT%26#039;S a new low!!!
Reply:Bless he obviously has no idea! Well if you win you will be happy and can buy what you really wanted. Lol blokes are clueless arent they?
Reply:Its the thought that counts right? At least the card was %26quot;very nice%26quot;. Maybe he has something planned for later, its only the beginning of the day...
Reply:Just kick his balls
Reply:I bliv it%26#039;s the thot that counts lovie...he wishes u can win the lottery which to me is the best thing eva!!!! Don 4gt me whn once u%26#039;re a millioner xxx
Reply:get over it! after 9 years many couples are over it anyway. least you got something
Reply:he forgot and thats all they had left at wallgreens



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